Thursday, January 09, 2014
Fresh Start and False Start
The boys were awesome and really never complained. They have always played well together since during our homeschooling days that's what they did. Immediately when the lights went out they pulled out some board games and came up with their own super game using RISK, Monopoly, High Bid, Masterpiece and money from several others. Every time I would work through the room I'd overhear negotiations for stocks, shares, trades, and auctions. It was hilarious. After a couple days of this elaborate super game they moved into Lego mode and created a city on the coffee table and beyond. In between they would go out and help bring in wood for the wood burning heater and snow to melt for various uses.
Christmas morning there was no present opening. For their combined gift Rob and I decided to get them a gaming computer that they had been asking for. It was my intention to purchase a few small gifts the Monday before Christmas as well, but when the world came to a halt on Sunday, that was no longer an option or a concern. The computer did get delivered on the Eve by a dedicated UPS delivery person who marched up our driveway since they couldn't drive through due to tree branches over the driveway and power line but it was not put to use for days later. The boys were happy just knowing they had one coming. They also made some great choices in their gifts they bought for me and Rob which we opened a little early since they got a super flashlight for their Dad that was very handy in the power outage.
My favorite gift was a pair of new frying pans that got some great use quite quickly. Thankfully I had just gotten the propane stove hooked up in the "extra" kitchen so we were able to cook even without electricity, we strategically made our way through all leftovers in the fridge then worked on the items in the regular freezer. The items in the stock freezer we left snuggled together as long as possible then when it was cold enough we transferred things to outside receptacles and packed ziplock bags filled with ice around stuff. In the end we didn't lose much food but note to self, next year do more canning than freezing!
The entire experience was also an awakening for the hubby and I to get back on track with our preparedness but being self sufficient in desperate times such as these. The list has begun on what to upgrade for next year, if not before, definitely need a new kerosene heater, fix the generator, make sure there is always a supply of batteries, flashlights, candles and matches readily available, keep jugs of water around (we usually have a couple milk jugs full and on top of the kitchen cabinets), and work on the wood supply. That surely shouldn't be a problem since we will be cleaning up branches until September!
I must say I sort of enjoyed the cooking during the power out, I used all the good stuff from our garden that I put in the freezer, we had locally raised meat, lots of herbs to work with, and plenty of baking supplies. After the power came back on we got out into the world for a spell, did some grocery shopping and grabbed mostly fruits and veggies to cook with. None to soon because 2014 began with a good snow storm that had everybody holed up again. During the blizzard that followed the ice storm I got creative with a can of Hershey's Special Dark cocoa and made chocolate cake from scratch, gourmet hot cocoa, and fudgy brownies, all were fabulous. When you have the time and there is no option to go anywhere it is amazing how creative and resourceful you can be. Thankfully power stayed on when the temperatures dropped to nearly 15 below zero!
Holiday break was extended by three days and the kids finally got on the bus this morning although it was negative nine degrees while we shivered in my van that just didn't want to warm up, waiting for the bus to arrive. The whole experience of the past couple weeks has brought back the original inspiration for moving out here in the first place, to live more sustainably and at some point off the grid. As with so many things some times life gets in the way and since Rob was gone so much for work and I was involved with kid and community activities those goals seemed to fall by the wayside. Hopefully this year we can start moving back toward that direction.
Who knows what the future holds, I'm happy to take each day as it comes and be grateful to have another day to be surprised. I can tell you a few things on the horizon. Winter activities for the boys include Robotics (Fox is on FRC Team 3535 and Ben on rookie Team 5201), Fox is also continuing with Model U.N., Ethan will be doing some more Forensic tournaments and is auditioning for a youth rock band tomorrow called 3rd Degree Burns (he's auditioning for singer and will be learning bass). All the boys will soon begin counselor training as well and work at the 4H camp in July. Rob began getting calls and emails from clients yesterday which is a good sign life is beginning again in his industry. Me, I will continue my role as Vice President and Acting President for the Lapeer County Concert Choir, Chair of the 4H Camp Committee focusing the next couple months on recruiting counselors by doing presentations at NHS meetings in various area high schools, and also working to get a resurge of volunteers for the 4H Feeds Families Committee which the boys have agreed to help with as well. Rob and I are also registered as mentors for the robotics teams and will be at as many build sessions as possible.
Here's wishing you a peaceful and prosperous 2014. Remember don't sweat the small stuff, and it's all small stuff.
Thursday, July 25, 2013
iDon't Know Where the Time Goes
Thankful for: All the boys having an amazing week at camp. Fox really liked being a counselor for both day and overnight camp and plans to take part again next year. Ethan made the most of his last year and is looking forward to moving on to day camp counselor next summer. Benjamin had an incredible time in Huntsville, AL and was pretty proud that he made the astronaut laugh during the graduation ceremony. The boys made friends with a couple brothers from Korea and had fun sharing words from each other's language and of course iPod apps and games. I will share more after I get the disc of photos and he can explain more of the missions to me.
Creative Endeavors: Making games for camp like a Super Twister board on a King size sheet using a pizza box stencil. We also played human foos ball, Super Swatter balloon badmitton, Beat the Bear (with add-on variations), and Bandana Grab which got pretty intense at times which added to the hilarity.
Latest Project: Working on some crafty Fair entries using scrap molding and tiles.
My 3 Sons: In the area of sports we've had a bit of a shake up. After years of cross-country Fox has decided to jump ship and try something new. It started with him just wanting more of a workout but it is looking like he will actually stay for a season. Never thought any of my boys would go this route but it looks like we'll be heading out to some football games this year! He's been going to as many training sessions as he can and has talked to the head coach about a game plan. Official season starts Aug. 14.
Ben and Ethan will still run Middle School Cross Country.
Pigs and rabbits are doing well, this week the boys delivered their buyer letters. Everything is on track for Fair, they've got all the suppies they need and made sure each has a showmanship outfit before they head off to Port Austin to relax before the crazy week of Fair begins.
The first Born: Aggrivated with her job, threatening to give notice and go back to college full time. I can only hope.
Employment News: Starting to work on my renewal tutorials for subbing. Fun.
Hoping to Improve: My exercise routine, need to get back in my regular Yoga practices and add some toning sessions. There's a new fitness studio in town that I have on my list to check out.
Food for Thought: Much to the complaint of my family I have been working on cleaning out the cupboards using up all processed products with a shelf life and also finishing the meat stock in the freezer. Alex's vegan sensibilities have inspired me although I'm not going totally vegan I am working toward as fresh as possible and a greater percentage of veggies and fruits. Cereal is probably going to be what they give me the most resistance about.
Last Words:
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Electric Company

Friday, May 25, 2012
Fantasy Island
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
1 Week til FREEDOM
After haircuts (and color for me) with the "Best Stylist Ever!" we made a spontaneous trip to the Detroit Zoo. My mother kept yearly memberships with three organizations: the Zoo, the Detroit Institute of Arts, and Greenfield Village/Museum, in memory of her birthday coming up I purchased a family membership, as we made our way around happy thoughts of our visits there kept coming to my mind, the stroller days, the train ride enthusiasm, the winter visit for Ben's birthday one year, sneaking and peeking in the back building at the baby giraffe that was still sequestered, and the conversations about various animal husbandry as mother was always a wealth of knowledge and loved to share with the kids and get their thoughts on things. Dinosauria was in its final days so we perused through there as well.
Fox participated in his first high school cross-country meet and did amazingly well making the jump to a 3-mile race. He placed 12th (medals were given to the top 15) and had a finish time of 21:11. The second meet was much bigger with a ton more runners, he said his ankle was bothering him a little he had a decent time but didn't medal. This week they'll run in Brown City and I will attend with camera at the ready! He picked up his Freshman schedule: AP Prep English, AP History, Intro Physics, Intro Chemistry, Health, Phys. Ed., Geometry, Current Events, Woodworking I, Intro Business, and Critical Reading & Writing. This is over three trimesters mind you but looks like a challenging but fun year is ahead for him. He's also interested in joining Model U.N. but has emphatically refused to participate in Forensics again. Ugh. I tried.
Wednesday, May 04, 2011
Off He Goes!

After two canceled meets the middle school track team finally got their chance to run at the Brown City Invitational that hosted seven teams from surrounding areas. This was the first time Fox ran three events during a meet. He started off strong in the 2-mile and came in 5th place, even got to hear his name over the loudspeaker. The 1-mile race was next after not much down time, his legs were sore and although he ran a good race and came in really strong in the end he did not place. Unfortunately I had to leave to get to LCCC practice and missed the 4 x 800 relay but from all accounts I've heard it was pretty incredible, the North Branch team took it by a landslide. Our first runner got them a 200 meter lead and every runner in turn kept and increased the lead, very exciting.



Ok, well I guess I'll conclude my little tangent and get back to reality...... if I must. The kiss did surprise me though after such a sweet and personal ceremony I was anticipating William going all Clark Gable, grabbing Kate in his arms, dipping her and landing a long, lingering kiss on her, oh, but that's right they're English and gestures like that are most improper!
Back to gardening, editing and subbing......hope all is well in your world.
Tuesday, March 01, 2011
In Memory of


Wednesday, September 08, 2010
and Away We Go!

Everything went well for the boys during the school day so far, the biggest glitch has been the bus pick-up. With one entire school changing runs there are to say the least a few snags in the program. Not to mention losing the head of transportation during the summer and a new person in place, bless his heart. Ethan's driver was so far off schedule (30 minutes late) I ended up driving him up to school. The second day the driver for the first run came so soon we missed her! Then I find out someone called the bus garage impersonating me and said that Fox will not be riding the bus at all and to cancel his pick-up. What! Myself and the poor woman at the garage were confounded and a bit scared. The weird thing is I called about them not being picked up just moments after the bogus call was placed. (cue Twilight Zone music). Alex had her first class last night, two more tomorrow, plus lots of hours at the BK.
A peek through the fence at the after practice coach chat while I was waiting to pick up Fox. Ben's soccer practices have been going great too, he really got an awesome coach this year and the uniforms are super cool! I think they should call themselves the Grasshoppers because they're green, black and yellow.
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
For the Love of
Then we got down to business with a couple games of some serious Laser Tag. Players ranged in age from 9 to 60 something and included Ben, Fox, Ethan, Alex, Michael, Kyle, Bruno, Jeremy, Taylor, Riley, Mom and Dad, Uncle James, Grandpa Q, Aunt Dorothy, and R.J. The competition was fierce and we all had a blast!

... my 1st grade buddy Scott. Last Wednesday I subbed the afternoon in my favorite first grade class, my friend with compulsion issues was there and we had a great time during Center/Free Time Activities. Scott has impluses he can't control, he'll eat things, go up and randomly smack a kid on the back or super squeeze someone, or he'll just start pulling things out of drawers in the classroom. He's on medication and is getting better about keeping in control but he really needs someone to stay near and keep him focused. He is incredibly smart and has a servant's heart; it is very touching to see how his classmates try to protect him, especially the girls with their 'mothering' instincts. I honestly like the kid and my heart goes out for him. Peace to you little brother man.

.... teenagers. I think this picture says it all, if you want to keep peace in the car on a long ride all you need are ....

Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Q
The ABC's of Life's Journey
Appreciate who you are
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Be nice to everybody

Choose your own road
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Dodge negativity
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Envision your destination
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Flaunt your fabulousness
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Go where your heart leads
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Have faith
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Investigate life's twists and turns
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Jump!
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Keep on keepin' on
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Laugh lots
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Make friends
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Never litter
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Observe the scenery
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Play often
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Quit worrying
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Relax
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Stop and smell the flowers
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Take it one step at a time
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Unolad your excess baggage
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Venture into the unknown
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Walk a mile in someone else's shoes
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X-pect the best
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Yield to fun
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Zone out occasionally-it's good for you!
My maiden name is Quatrine, hence Grandpa Q.
Thursday, October 08, 2009
Jeepers - Kin
During the Ecology camp I realized that one of the boys on Ben's team, Zach, is in his class too. His mom was chaperoning also that day and we started talking, she lives on the street south of me, Welch! I said we should help each other out with rides. After school Zach came home with us for a quick bite (cheese quesadillas & fresh apples) and then to the game so mom could get another kid to football practice. Usually she would get Zach to the soccer games late because of it, wish I wouldn't have known earlier. But for spring that will be awesome. The boys all got along great, he's a very nice kid. They are new to the North Branch schools this year, moved from Holly. He husband is gone for weeks at a time to work, so I can totally relate.
Substituted for the Business teacher at the High School yesterday. The classes were pretty mellow for the most part, everybody worked well independently but each class had the one or two that just talked the entire time and didn't even really make any attempt to get their work done. And what is with half the class always having to go to the bathroon, or to their locker, or to get a drink, give me a break! I took advantage of the hi-speed, logging in under Alex's User ID, and worked through conference hour and lunch. Got 50 entries pulled! Hoping to not have to take a lot of HS gigs though. Middle school, wasn't so bad.
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Kin,
a complicated animal.
Love them,
hate them.
Button pushers,
heartbreakers.
Fill you,
with pride.
Spouses, siblings,
parents, cousins
Every relation
can get insane.
Disagreement,
misunderstanding
Bonding,
appreciation.
A tangled web
indeed.
Life’s too short
to regret.
Storm over,
forget it.
It’s so weird, ever since I can remember as a kid there always seemed to be some kind of emotional explosion, mostly between my mother and I, maybe it happened between my parents too, sometime during the fall. Not sure if it was the stress of back-to-school time or hormonal biorhythms or what. But without fail my mother and I would enter into some type of altercation. I noticed the pattern with my husband and I after several years of marriage and it seems the cycle continues. This year’s catalyst being my teenage daughter, oh, we’ve had altercations pretty regularly but you know there are always those that gain more fuel than others. It’s almost like I’m two people, the one that can remain calm in adversity and the other “don’t *beep* with me” model. It’s difficult to lay down the law with a teenager; they don’t think rationally when they are determined to get their own way. Many times I’ve let what ever particular issue go, against my better judgment, just because I don’t have the energy for a throw down, and I always end up with regrettable repercussions. Those stick-to-your-guns moments suck, but are necessary. Yes, it’s been an interesting 24 hours in Parenting Land, but if that’s the worst I have to deal with I s’pose I should count myself lucky.
Monday, September 28, 2009
Last happy post
For Today... September 28, 2009
Outside my window... windy but getting brighter.
I am thinking... seriously about withdrawing from the gymnastic program in Rochester.
From the learning rooms... fiscal responsibility, I don’t understand why when I send $ with my dd for lunch she still ends up with a negative balance.
I am thankful for... being able to keep up on the bills.
From the kitchen... homemade salsa, Nacho Fiesta last night.
I am wearing... kahki pants, Express sweatshirt (red), white low socks, black leather no back shoes.
I am reading... Danielle Steele “One Day at a Time” plus lots of cooking mags.
I've been watching... another Keifer flick, that starred Michael J. Fox, “Bright Lights, Big City.”
I am hoping... for regular stable income that more than meets our needs.
I am creating... another batch of tvondvd descriptions.
I am hearing... a quiet house except for my dh rumbling around in the bathroom.
Around the house... lots of decluttering to do, again, same areas always gets botched.
One of my favorite things... peace.
A few plans for the rest of the week... video work, gymnastics, Soccer game, chaperoning for the first day of 4th Grade Ecology Camp, periodontist consult with Alex, camping at Wagener County Park in Harbor Beach on Friday then seeing the cross-country races Saturday morning.
Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you.
Backpack? No silly, it's a shield!
Monday, September 07, 2009
Tuesday, August 04, 2009
Forging ahead -->

and starting some 'get ahead' spelling assignments with Ben and Ethan, working with Explode-the-Code materials and spelling worksheets Mrs. Bodnar sent home for me. Originally I was going to have my mom tutor them but instead we're going to forge ahead on our own and I'll just consult with her if we need help decifering a particular rule.
Wish me luck!
Imagining it and actually putting it down on paper are two different things.
Seeing it and it actually happening are few and far between.
Making things happen and having things happen are very different means.
Believing in and hoping for are one in the same.
~byn There