Education Remorse and Recovery

I have been having a very hard time with the state of my children's public school education for a variety of reasons.  Part of it is just a winter slump I'm sure but more and more I hear of things that are done or more accurately NOT done and the students are suffering for it. If I did have any more kids I would surely work with them at home for the early years again and I'm grateful I did that.  Alexandra homeschooled up until 9th grade and it was her idea to enter the public school arena, looking back now I regret not getting involved with co-ops and homeschool groups earlier but we covered a lot of territory on our own and she learned through field trips and activities in a way that she didn't even realize we were "doing school."  The best compliment I could get during the first and second round of conferences was "I didn't know she was homeschooled."  She hit the ground running and loved getting involved with extra-curricular activities and it was nice not to have to pay and travel for her to participate in various enrichment.  When it came to academics I did my best to let her administrate herself.  She wasn't the most organized student but she did well and for the most part liked her teachers and her classes.

circa 2004 - the sheep & lamb days

 

Fox was home until middle school and when he entered the public school he was very eager to learn and did well with his assignments however over time it seems like he's less and less impressed with the academic status of our public system.  It's not that the material is difficult but as he explains it is presented in a very "lack-luster manner."  We've just received the new Student Handbook and info for scheduling next year, his senior year, the one that you should finally get to take all those classes that you've took prerequisites for and now get to do the fun classes, challenging classes in the area you're considering to pursue in college.  However, there are no classes beyond the basics offered really.  I'm totally disgusted and discouraged.  He is going to have to take some classes online because I'm not putting him in blow off classes just to fill his schedule and he'd rather be doing something more productive too.  Since my daughter started they have dropped so many elective classes it is pathetic!  No Creative Writing, no genre classes, no mythology, no playwriting, there's hardly any extra history classes, no advanced level art classes, the business class offerings are a joke, beyond Biology and Chemistry the only other science is Environmental Science.

Benjamin is going to be a Freshman next year and the schedule is pretty much set with all required classes so there is little room for explorative classes.  The biggest "required" class I have issue with is Health, which is totally stupid and could be covered in about 2 weeks of science, an entire 12-weeks is completely unnecessary.  I honestly believe it just gives them information about some things I'd rather they not be presented with.  Ben has only done pre-school, Kindergarten, 2nd and most of 3rd grade at home.  He did better having someone other than Mom as the educational authority but I see his attitude becoming more jaded as time goes on.  His particular class has a pretty bad reputation and I'm not really keen on him getting lumped in with that group.  Normally he's an all A student but this year his grades are slipping a bit and I think it is because of boredom and lack of challenging subject matter not to mention influence of associates.  He'll be in seated classes for 9th grade but we may investigate some other options for sophomore year.  This one is my all attitude boy and time will tell if he decides to explore other learning options.  The other challenge is the new requirement starting with the class of 2016 that students need two credits of a foreign language to graduate.  Our Spanish and French classes are pretty weak and not what they really want to pursue.  I'm going to hold off on the language classes until his junior year so he can get his prerequisities done to do the CAD and design classes which is what he'll need for the engineering track.

Ethan has already committed to jumping off the seated class roster and working with me to plan an alternative schedule for his 8th grade year.  We're deciding on which classes to register for online, which we'll develop our own curriculum for, and which he'll go into the building for.  It was my intention for Ben and Ethan to work entirely online for the 2nd trimester this year but I kept getting talked out of it.  With as much school as we've missed I wish I would have stuck to my guns.  Next time around I will.  E has also become remise of the attitudes and behavior of many guys in his class that he thought of as friends.  This is a time for some serious character development, hope I can help him make good choices, or at least make sure he knows options are available.  He also thinks he could get through material much quicker if he worked on his own without so many distractions.

We're exploring summer camp options as well, need to keep sane during these snow days.  Thinking about summer helps.  Fox applied for a program in Midland at Northwood University called LAB (Learning About Business) Free-Enterprise Camp.  They except 40 students.  He also applied and interviewed for the Capitol Experience trip through 4H and attended another Model U.N. event at Saginaw Valley State University as the Canada delegate.  There is one more coming up at Hope College, wherein he'll represent the Netherlands.  I got to attend the Wayne State event, it was very interesting to see how things are run and the work the students do from different schools.  Very eye-opening.  Meet your college-bound competition.  Speaking of college I've been getting Fox registered for campus visits.  So far we've booked Oakland University in March, Grand Valley in April, and Central Michigan in May. Ben would like to go to the Lake Superior State University Engineering Camp that Fox attended in 2010 but I also found another program at Michigan Tech!

Both Fox and Ben made the decision to withdraw from robotics.  While I am normally a don't-quit-and-see-it-through kind of parent in this particular case I felt it would be better for all involved if that choice was honored.  There were many factors in play but sometimes it says more to set a limit and step away when things are not progressing well.  I'll leave it at that. 

circa 2014 - fun with forensics

 

Last weekend was our big Broncos BullYard Forensics Tournament.  Alex came and judged along with some other former NB forensicators and drama kids.  I also got to judge for the first time and checked out some categories I had never seen before during my stand-by rounds.  Judged a round of DI (Dramatic Interpretation), DUOs, and Storytelling.  The presenters were amazing it was so hard to rank them!  Ethan took his Wizard Collection of Poems piece again but added another poem.  He didn't break semis but had a great time watching his friends who did.  He was inspired to try Impromptu Sales and in high school Broadcasting.  For the Spring Season he's going to work up a Storytelling piece, we're currently researching material.

Fresh Start and False Start

Ah yes, another year to conquer, so many possibilities, such high hopes we have, such anticipation of the good things to come.  Well we had quite the end of 2013 when an ice storm came through our little part of Michigan and knocked out power, in our small town, in the closest 'city' to us, and beyond.  We were out for nearly 5 days right through Christmas.  Yep, no power on Christmas and you know what, we survived.

The boys were awesome and really never complained.  They have always played well together since during our homeschooling days that's what they did.  Immediately when the lights went out they pulled out some board games and came up with their own super game using RISK, Monopoly, High Bid, Masterpiece and money from several others.  Every time I would work through the room I'd overhear negotiations for stocks, shares, trades, and auctions.  It was hilarious.  After a couple days of this elaborate super game they moved into Lego mode and created a city on the coffee table and beyond.  In between they would go out and help bring in wood for the wood burning heater and snow to melt for various uses.

Christmas morning there was no present opening.  For their combined gift Rob and I decided to get them a gaming computer that they had been asking for.  It was my intention to purchase a few small gifts the Monday before Christmas as well, but when the world came to a halt on Sunday, that was no longer an option or a concern.  The computer did get delivered on the Eve by a dedicated UPS delivery person who marched up our driveway since they couldn't drive through due to tree branches over the driveway and power line but it was not put to use for days later.  The boys were happy just knowing they had one coming.  They also made some great choices in their gifts they bought for me and Rob which we opened a little early since they got a super flashlight for their Dad that was very handy in the power outage. 

My favorite gift was a pair of new frying pans that got some great use quite quickly.  Thankfully I had just gotten the propane stove hooked up in the "extra" kitchen so we were able to cook even without electricity, we strategically made our way through all leftovers in the fridge then worked on the items in the regular freezer.  The items in the stock freezer we left snuggled together as long as possible then when it was cold enough we transferred things to outside receptacles and packed ziplock bags filled with ice around stuff.  In the end we didn't lose much food but note to self, next year do more canning than freezing!

The entire experience was also an awakening for the hubby and I to get back on track with our preparedness but being self sufficient in desperate times such as these.  The list has begun on what to upgrade for next year, if not before, definitely need a new kerosene heater, fix the generator,  make sure there is always a supply of batteries, flashlights, candles and matches readily available, keep jugs of water around (we usually have a couple milk jugs full and on top of the kitchen cabinets), and work on the wood supply.  That surely shouldn't be a problem since we will be cleaning up branches until September!

I must say I sort of enjoyed the cooking during the power out, I used all the good stuff from our garden that I put in the freezer, we had locally raised meat, lots of herbs to work with, and plenty of baking supplies.  After the power came back on we got out into the world for a spell, did some grocery shopping and grabbed mostly fruits and veggies to cook with.  None to soon because 2014 began with a good snow storm that had everybody holed up again.  During the blizzard that followed the ice storm I got creative with a can of Hershey's Special Dark cocoa and made chocolate cake from scratch, gourmet hot cocoa, and fudgy brownies, all were fabulous.  When you have the time and there is no option to go anywhere it is amazing how creative and resourceful you can be.  Thankfully power stayed on when the temperatures dropped to nearly 15 below zero!

Holiday break was extended by three days and the kids finally got on the bus this morning although it was negative nine degrees while we shivered in my van that just didn't want to warm up, waiting for the bus to arrive.  The whole experience of the past couple weeks has brought back the original inspiration for moving out here in the first place, to live more sustainably and at some point off the grid.  As with so many things some times life gets in the way and since Rob was gone so much for work and I was involved with kid and community activities those goals seemed to fall by the wayside.  Hopefully this year we can start moving back toward that direction.

Who knows what the future holds, I'm happy to take each day as it comes and be grateful to have another day to be surprised.  I can tell you a few things on the horizon.  Winter activities for the boys include Robotics (Fox is on FRC Team 3535 and Ben on rookie Team 5201), Fox is also continuing with Model U.N., Ethan will be doing some more Forensic tournaments and is auditioning for a youth rock band tomorrow called 3rd Degree Burns (he's auditioning for singer and will be learning bass).  All the boys will soon begin counselor training as well and work at the 4H camp in July.  Rob began getting calls and emails from clients yesterday which is a good sign life is beginning again in his industry.  Me, I will continue my role as Vice President and Acting President for the Lapeer County Concert Choir, Chair of the 4H Camp Committee focusing the next couple months on recruiting counselors by doing presentations at NHS meetings in various area high schools, and also working to get a resurge of volunteers for the 4H Feeds Families Committee which the boys have agreed to help with as well.  Rob and I are also registered as mentors for the robotics teams and will be at as many build sessions as possible.

Here's wishing you a peaceful and prosperous 2014.  Remember don't sweat the small stuff, and it's all small stuff. 

iBid Farewell

Outside my Window:  Cold, windy, several inches of snow on the ground and everything looking like crystals.  We had an ice storm earlier this week and are currently without power.  I am blogging from a remote location.  It looks beautiful but the rustic living is getting a bit old.  People are beginning to get power back so hopefully we'll be restored by the weekend.

What's on my Mind:  Making choices about which organizations and activities to stay involved in both personally and with/for the kids.  There comes a point when you can't do everything and you need to prioritize.

Had a fun outing a while back with my choir buddies to Columbiaville.  We went to lunch then shopped at a new choir supporter, Inspired, a really cool repurpose shop, then went on a tour of the William Peters Mansion, who was a lumber baron.  Very cool place, wonderfully renovated, they do parties and murder mystery dinners there plus it is a bed and breakfast.

Thankful for: Two wonderful concerts with an amazing group of singers.  Very impressed with how our sound is developing.  The Friday performance was packed out and we had a great turnout on Sunday as well.  Looking forward to "All Creation Sings" in the Spring. 

Creative Endeavors: Working on a poster design for the 2nd Annual North Branch Cross Country Spring Fitness 5K.  Almost complete and will be distributed about town after the new year.  Also lighting the fire under the Lapeer County Concert Choir board of directors to expand our educational outreach, more info to follow.

My Latest Project:  Setting up attendance at National Honor Society meetings in schools around the area to go in a recruit kids for 4H camp counselor training.  Rob and I have also become involved with the FRC Robotics team for Ed-Tech and North Branch.  The kick off is at Kettering on January 4th then the real excitment begins!

My 3 Sons:  Ben's experience at the First Tech Robotics challenge was a bit of a frustrating day but he kept it together and came in 10th out of 21 teams which isn't bad considering he never got to drive the robot before the competition due to technical difficulties.

Ethan made it to finals at his first middle school forensics tournament at Hartland and finished 6th in his category (Poetry).  The state competition at Central Michigan University was pretty fierce and he did not receive any awards there.  He is going to use his 3 Wizard poems by Jack Prelutsky piece one more time in January then begin working on a duo with his buddy Noah for the spring tournaments.  

Fox did his first Model U.N. event and is looking forward to the new topice of World Economics which he feels will be more interesting for him.  He is also waiting to do an interview for National Honor Society to be a buddy to an elementary student and has started attending meetings for the high school robotics team, they are pursuing him to be their "money man" and keep track of their financials as well as acting as a team manager. 

The First Born:  Single again.  Down to one job but that's good.  Judged her first Forensic Tourny at Central and is planning to do more and try and come help mentor the middle school team.

Employment News: I worked at Honeyflow filling holiday orders and have been subbing.  Rob is at the end of his unemployment and we just got the account for his new business, Kings Mill Technical Services, set up at a bank in town.  The calls have been coming in pretty steady and hopefully will continue.  Since we've been down this road of self-employment before we have a little bit better plan going into it so I believing this will a succesfully move.

Hoping to Improve:  Making time to write.  Running schedule has been messed up because of the icy conditions.  Looking forwarding to running my first 8K on Jan 31st regardless of training.  Below is the HSXC team at the Fall Sports Banquet.

Food for Thought: I've been reading a great book called Food Rules: An Eater's Manual by Michael Pollen that really enforces the thought behind the food choices we make.  It helps me stay true to the cause of fresh eating especially when the schedule gets busy and "fast food" gets tempting.  My friend who battles with arthrtis has adopted a no wheat and no sugar routine over the past few months and has noticed a remarkable difference in her condition, basically no inflamation and very little pain/discomfort.  What you eat matters and heals if we just give it time for the body to accept the change.  Taking a pill just covers symptoms for a time but doesn't really heal anything.....just saying.

Last Words:  Here is my mantra for the new year ....